What is the most important relationship quality? In every relationship there has to be one quality that is the most important. Having a quality such as love, romance, trust or honesty is vital to any lasting relationship. Relationships are one of the hardest things in the world to maintain because of the frequent changes in partners, hobbies, friends and even ones personality. Many people say the most important relationship quality is trust, and that may be true to a certain extent. But by far the most important relationship quality is togetherness.
Togetherness is the most important relationship quality because without it there is no way to be romantic or have healthy open conversation to build trust. Trust is important because both partners need to feel as if they can go out alone and not have to worry about what the other one is doing or who they are with. Honesty is important because both partners deserve to know what is going on with the other one in regards to their relationship. There are so many qualities that help define a relationship, but it still comes back to togetherness.
As the most important quality, togetherness means you are together through the good and the bad, the fun and the boring, the tough and the easy and everything in between. No matter what your or your partners interests and hobbies are you make time for each other someway and somehow. Togetherness brings the best out of your relationship and it shouldn’t be forgotten when being compared to trust and honesty. All 3 of these qualities are important, but without togetherness they can’t be worked on and strengthened.
Many relationship experts say in order to build a strong and healthy relationship you need to be have open and honest conversation, need to spend adequate time together as well as apart, and you need to trust one another. If most experts are saying this don’t you think it is backed with some authority? If you get anything out of this article about the most important relationship quality remember this, “The best relationship you will ever have is the one that was the hardest to maintain. All relationships take different amounts of time and effort, which you will decide, depending on how important they are to your future!”
Question: With the most important relationship quality being togetherness, how much time(%) do you and your partner spend apart?
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I usually spend about 60% of my free time with my wife. I do this because we try to have the right mix between alone time and time together. I love to golf and she loves to shop, so that is where we split ways. Our most important relationship quality is communication!
This site is really unique. I love it. My husband and I spend about 50% to 60% of our day together. We’re working part of that time on our home business, but we are together. It works well for us. Having said that, that means we spend from 40% to 50% of our time apart. I think we would go crazy if all our time was spent together!